My wife likes to watch those TV shows that change women’s clothing and style; Sometimes I watch it with her. It works like this: a woman’s family or friends recommend her to the program’s production team, generally motivated by the bad taste in which she dresses and behaves. From there, the presenters will make this person aware of how to dress and behave more appropriately in accordance with what they believe in and seek for their own life.
It is almost always a battle to get these girls to let go not only of their old clothes, but of what the clothes represent to them. It’s not just a style, it’s what they have and are.
The beauty of a woman in being what she is
What I find most interesting about these episodes is that the participants only begin to accept the transformation proposed to them when they are touched on their life stories. The “look” of questionable taste is usually associated with some trauma or difficulty in the past, and the repulsion to change actually tries to protect a wounded and injured person.
Some of them justify wanting a better position in the job market – whether in the executive or academic world – or wanting to do the “athletic” type, but it may happen that, because of this, they go for a “tough” style, sometimes even aggressive. , adopting somewhat masculine clothes and attitudes. So, when they delve deeper into the person’s life, they discover, for example, a woman who protects herself by being strong, because she suffered some type of illness or lived in a very tense environment.
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Signs that scream in the soul
Others wear clothes that are too big or too loose, hiding in the fabric, ashamed of themselves, either because they have gained weight or lost a lot of weight. It could be that, behind this, there is someone who has had a very painful emotional loss, and that this has reflected on their physique or brings scars from accidents, memories that remain in the body, but which are signs of how much the soul still screams.
There are still women who have a deep desire to be seen, perceived at their best, but they do so by showing themselves exaggeratedly, with very short or very tight clothes, exaggerated necklines and transparencies. We commonly observe that, in childhood and adolescence, they were belittled, discredited or left aside.
There are also those to whom life has imposed countless responsibilities, which is why they have become somewhat sloppy with their appearance. Due to lack of time, they got used to not seeing much fun in themselves.
Appreciate what’s best in you
We realize that women surround almost everything they do with meaning, so if you, who read this article, for some reason do not see beauty in yourself, reflect on where your feeling of “less value” might come from. And when you detect it, know that the undesirable situation does not determine who you are. You have your own uniqueness, your own charm, believe that, even if you’ve never been told, or if you’ve been told otherwise!
Then, another point to be worked on is: value what’s best in you. There is definitely at least one part of you that you find beautiful, be it the contour of your eyes, the shape of your mouth, your hair, your waistline, your height, anything. Highlight this, but never exaggerate.
Be beautiful, stay beautiful regardless of physical shape. The chubby ones find themselves beautiful, the skinny ones, the taller ones, the shorter ones… Everyone has their own beauty and can see themselves in a better light when they start to value what they already recognize as good things.
The beauty industry has created a standard
The beauty industry created one and demands that everyone be that way, but this is not true. There are appropriate clothes, makeup and haircuts for each person, which will better reveal their femininity and beauty.
However, the most important thing is not the aesthetic transformation, but rather the one that happens in the heart. A woman reflects the beauty of God and something deep within her yearns to respond to this. Sun. When a woman perceives herself as beautiful, her soul and heart seem to begin to restore themselves!
Someone once said: “beauty will save the world”. Both salvation and beauty come from God, so He made you gracious. And believe me, the world needs to see you happy to shine the part of beauty that the Lord has placed in you.