Child eroticization is a phenomenon that is taking hold in society at an accelerated rate.
A has access to any type of conversation coming from her caregiver and older siblings; She also has access to open channels at home. The child has access to the condominium without adult supervision, because the parents still believe that it is a safe place. False illusion. The neighbor’s son isn’t always the best company. Also, to our surprise, our children may be influencing friends and we don’t know it. Eroticization also reaches homes through the hands of many mothers. How many children wearing adult clothes, short clothes that insinuate and represent seduction!
Environments with inadequate information
Boys and girls frequent environments, such as bars, with their parents or guardians and hear, between one joke and another, inappropriate information about sex, women and drinks. Often, content that comes to the table without any responsibility ends up distorting what is serious, what is beautiful and has value. Some people live with their mother’s boyfriend or their father’s girlfriend from an early age, without any family structure or organization. If today, some families have this family format due to some necessity, which is not ours to judge, there must be a responsibility to adapt to a life of apparent “singleness”, as there is a child seeing, hearing and learning all things . Children understand the world and interact in it, based on the way they feel affected by it.
Body exposure opportunities
There are many opportunities that children are having to interact with advertisements, films, cartoons, soap operas that arouse seduction; in addition to being watched by pedophiles who take advantage of posting naive photos of family members on social networks. Recently, Revista Época, dated October 26, 2015, presented a headline with the following title: “Social media is not a place for children”. In this report, she presents a high rate of men with behavior characteristic of pedophilia, who visit social networks full time in order to satisfy their desires, preferring advertisements for children’s products, which always bring the image of docile, beautiful and showy.
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Harassment of children is full-time
“The problem is that most parents seem to underestimate the risks. Harassment of minors on and apps occurs full time. A survey by Época shows that there are still few parents and guardians of children in Brazil who impose internet usage rules for their children”, completes the report brought by the magazine. “During the early hours, access to pages showing children in swimwear and pajamas increases.” (Revisa Época/October-2015)
I invite you, reader, to take a trip back in time and rediscover your childhood. I hope it was more fun filled. Problems, I know, have always existed in the history of humanity. On this return, perhaps, you will be reunited with your child and, motivated by this reflection, allow them to leave the cage, just to make your children and students healed and happy through the playful opportunities you will offer each of them.
If necessary, seek help
Remember: the main thing will always be your company. Reduce coercion, that is, the authoritarian and disqualifying way, full of punishments, when complaining about a child or teenager. Whatever the reason, control yourself. Be smarter than your circumstances.